The Fine Art of Multiple Orgasms
Are multiple orgasms in the same league as unicorns? Chances are, if you can only have one orgasm at a time, you’re jealous of people who say they go back for seconds. We’ll take a look and compare and contrast women and men below.
Here She Cums Again!
Sex is a real head game for women. For so many women, having an orgasm is difficult, especially with a partner. Multiple orgasms are much more commonplace in women than in men. But, it can still be tricky for women now and then. Women have a reputation for “faking” orgasm from time to time, and there’s probably some truth to that. It’s much easier for a woman to pretend that it is for a man.
So, when the mood is right, the stimulation is right, and the distractions are limited, a woman may get lucky! Right after a satisfying orgasm, a woman’s clitoris may be too sensitive to touch. This sensation will only last for a short time. At that point, further stimulation can lead to further orgasms. Unlike men, a woman is not limited in the number of orgasms she can have in a passionate session.
Some compare a woman’s orgasms to waves in the sea. I think that’s a good analogy. An orgasm will come crashing in to shore, subside, and then crash again. Sometimes secondary orgasms are as strong as the first one. But usually, according to anecdotal evidence, the first one is the best.
Now… Hold on a Minute!
Most men will tell you that they can only cum once. Some men, though, say they know a trick that will work. You might be thinking that it’s more of a possibility in a young man than an older man. But, that’s not how it works.
Men that boast of multiple orgasms usually practice on their own a great deal. It requires patience and training. This is easier for a more mature man. Once you’re past fifteen, it’s hard to climax a second time, or in short order.
The technique consists of stimulating the penis almost to orgasm. Instead of ejaculating, let the sensation subside. Repeat this as much as desired. Then, you will use the squeeze technique to prohibit ejaculation while feeling the sensation of orgasm.
Just as orgasm is approaching, squeeze the penis just below the head. After the feeling of orgasm subsides, continue stimulation. The sensation will build again, until you reach the moment of truth. You can try for another dry orgasm, or give in to total release.
You might be skeptical. Like I said, it’s going to take lots of practice to master this. You’re probably not going to get it on the first take. Be patient and work on your technique.
Another popular opinion is that tantric yoga can induce multiple orgasms. Yogis swear by it. Tantric, or tantra style yoga, practiced correctly, is said to lead to higher levels of consciousness. Claims of nine hour orgasms run rampant in this community. Nine hours though?
Tantric yoga is described as being about orgasm, but not about sex. Hmmm… that explains it. Here I was, thinking “How can you have a nine-hour orgasm? You have to call the Doctor for an erection lasting more than four hours!” So, when you’re practicing your multiple orgasms, don’t go for sessions that last longer than four hours.
Cumming to an End
To sum it up, consider that there are quite a few people that are non-orgasmic. In comparison, having one orgasm seems like a good deal. If you’re an over achiever, or just looking for some additional good times, consider the advice above.
Have fun! Don’t scare yourself!